Author: Alicia Dara

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Never-fail housecleaning tips from a self-proclaimed “tidier”

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Among the theories of human nature that I have accumulated in more than 50 years of being alive, one stands out as the most obvious: when …

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LA in the 80s: Cheesy Burritos & Road Demons Under California Gold Sunshine

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EDITOR’S NOTE: I’m pausing our usual programming to bring you this piece from the archives, which comes from my personal history with LA. Two of our …

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Award-Winning Actress & Writer Sandra Tsing Loh Breaks Down ‘Mad Moms’ & Manifesting Wisdom

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Welcome to the Womancake interview, Sandra! How is your work day going? Well, I’m right in the middle of this play that I’ve written and am …

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Less Floppy: A Midlife Exercise Manifesto

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Two bun-buns were mating in my neighbor’s yard this morning. Small and fawn-brown, with stubby rounded ears and slender white feet, these guys are everywhere in …

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Not Ready for 2025? You May Need One of These Fictional Therapists For Your Real-Life World

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On the morning the Trump administration took power in 2017, I awoke from a dream in which a kind female voice was telling me, in the …

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How To Find Your Midlife Power Voice in 2025

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Hi, welcome back! Something else I want to say on the subject is that even though you may feel unseen and unheard (to some degree) at …

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How to Be Bold & Audacious for Your 2025 VIsions

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Recently I overheard two middle-aged women talking in a crowded local lunch spot. The restaurant is frequented mostly by teenagers, who love its kitchy orange decor …

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How to Live Your Best Pretty Woman-Level Montage Life

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There is a moment in your favorite movie when the protagonist begins to make significant progress. This moment, which is actually a dedicated sequence, looks and …

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Glossy: Beauty Reporter Breaks Down the Industry & This Big Brand

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I’ve been reading Marisa’s essays and journalism in fashion mags for a decade, and when I saw she had a new book coming out (about Glossier …

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My Not-So Glamorous Life as an Extra on X-Files, 21 Jump Street, MacGyver & More

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After high school I took a gap year, then attended an elite musical theater conservatory in New York City. The program was brutally demanding but mercifully …

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Afraid of Winding Up on the Next Netflix Doc About Serial Killer Boyfriends? Make HIm Take the Blade Runner Boyfriend Test

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You had to be creative, but also strategic. In actual fact you had to be ruthless, but you might not know that until you carelessly threw …

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How Hawaii Connected Me to A Deeply Feminine Place

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It’s dark inside the catapult while you’re waiting for the action to start. You have to stay calm and trust that you’ll land in the right …