Author: Alicia Dara
Never-fail housecleaning tips from a self-proclaimed “tidier”
Among the theories of human nature that I have accumulated in more than 50 years of being alive, one stands out as the most obvious: when …
LA in the 80s: Cheesy Burritos & Road Demons Under California Gold Sunshine
EDITOR’S NOTE: I’m pausing our usual programming to bring you this piece from the archives, which comes from my personal history with LA. Two of our …
Award-Winning Actress & Writer Sandra Tsing Loh Breaks Down ‘Mad Moms’ & Manifesting Wisdom
Welcome to the Womancake interview, Sandra! How is your work day going? Well, I’m right in the middle of this play that I’ve written and am …
Less Floppy: A Midlife Exercise Manifesto
Two bun-buns were mating in my neighbor’s yard this morning. Small and fawn-brown, with stubby rounded ears and slender white feet, these guys are everywhere in …
Not Ready for 2025? You May Need One of These Fictional Therapists For Your Real-Life World
On the morning the Trump administration took power in 2017, I awoke from a dream in which a kind female voice was telling me, in the …
How To Find Your Midlife Power Voice in 2025
Hi, welcome back! Something else I want to say on the subject is that even though you may feel unseen and unheard (to some degree) at …
How to Be Bold & Audacious for Your 2025 VIsions
Recently I overheard two middle-aged women talking in a crowded local lunch spot. The restaurant is frequented mostly by teenagers, who love its kitchy orange decor …
How to Live Your Best Pretty Woman-Level Montage Life
There is a moment in your favorite movie when the protagonist begins to make significant progress. This moment, which is actually a dedicated sequence, looks and …
Glossy: Beauty Reporter Breaks Down the Industry & This Big Brand
I’ve been reading Marisa’s essays and journalism in fashion mags for a decade, and when I saw she had a new book coming out (about Glossier …
My Not-So Glamorous Life as an Extra on X-Files, 21 Jump Street, MacGyver & More
After high school I took a gap year, then attended an elite musical theater conservatory in New York City. The program was brutally demanding but mercifully …
Afraid of Winding Up on the Next Netflix Doc About Serial Killer Boyfriends? Make HIm Take the Blade Runner Boyfriend Test
You had to be creative, but also strategic. In actual fact you had to be ruthless, but you might not know that until you carelessly threw …
How Hawaii Connected Me to A Deeply Feminine Place
It’s dark inside the catapult while you’re waiting for the action to start. You have to stay calm and trust that you’ll land in the right …