This article was reviewed by Julia Switzer, MD, FACOG.
What Is Perimenopause Rage and How Can You Manage It?
Key Takeaways:
- Perimenopause rage refers to intense feelings of anger or irritability that women may experience as they navigate the shift into menopause. It’s not uncommon for perimenopause rage to come on suddenly with no noticeable trigger.
- Many symptoms of perimenopause can lead to perimenopause rage, including hormonal changes, reduced sleep, and stress.
- Treatments that may help with perimenopause rage include hormone replacement therapy (HRT), medications, talk therapy, and certain lifestyle changes.
With symptoms like hot flashes, night sweats, irregular periods, and more, going through perimenopause can feel like a wild trip where your hormones are in the driver’s seat. Another event that might mark this lead-in to menopause? Rapid shifts in mood, also known as perimenopause rage.
If you’re navigating perimenopause and are noticing that you feel irritated seemingly at the drop of a hat, perimenopause rage may be the culprit.
But what exactly is perimenopause rage? Keep reading to learn all of the details, including causes and the steps you can take to manage it.
What Is Perimenopause Rage?
Mood change is a common symptom of perimenopause. According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), about 40 percent of women in perimenopause experience mood changes similar to those of premenstrual syndrome (PMS).
Mood symptoms during perimenopause may include feeling more irritable, down, or anxious than before.
Perimenopause rage refers to periods of intense feelings of anger or irritability that occur during perimenopause. These feelings can often come on suddenly and without a clear trigger. The episodes may also cause distress or embarrassment after they pass.
For the record, perimenopause rage isn’t an official medical diagnosis. But research supports that it’s an event that impacts many women during perimenopause.
What Causes Perimenopause Rage?
Several factors may play a role in causing perimenopause rage.
Hormonal Changes
Perimenopause is the timeframe that leads up to your final menstrual period. During perimenopause, levels of the hormones estrogen and progesterone start to drop.
Fluctuations in estrogen levels can have a wide variety of effects on the body. One such effect is altering the body’s balance of the neurotransmitters dopamine and serotonin. Both neurotransmitters are generally considered to be “feel-good” neurotransmitters.
Research has linked dopamine and serotonin being out of balance to a variety of mood and mental health disorders, including depression.
Lack of Sleep
Trouble sleeping and frequent nighttime awakenings are common during perimenopause. Several factors may help explain why.
For example, shifting hormones may impact your ability to get good shut-eye. Further, other symptoms of menopause, such as frequent night sweats or needing to pee more often, can also mean you’re up in the middle of the night.
Sleep deprivation can, in turn, absolutely affect your mood. Research has linked poor sleep quality with a higher likelihood of irritability.
Discomfort
Perimenopause may include certain uncomfortable symptoms, like hot flushes and night sweats. And when we don’t feel comfortable, we may be more prickly than usual. Even research supports this notion: One study found an uptick in feelings of perimenopause anger as symptoms of menopause increase.
Up to 75 percent of women in perimenopause experience uncomfortable vasomotor symptoms, like hot flashes and night sweats., which can interfere with daily activities and sleep. Further, for about one-third of women in the United States, such vasomotor symptoms may be moderate or severe.
Another possible factor at play is genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM), which is estimated to impact more than 50 percent of women in perimenopause.
GSM can lead to vaginal dryness and irritation, making lovemaking unpleasant. The condition also impacts the urinary tract, causing you to have to pee more and boosting the risk of UTIs. Taken together, GSM not only impacts your physical comfort, but it can also affect your intimate health and quality of life.
Other symptoms of perimenopause that can lead to discomfort include muscle and joint pain and breast tenderness.
Stress
Stress can also cause perimenopause irritability. Research suggests that women in perimenopause report higher levels of perceived stress than premenopausal women.
An increase of stress during perimenopause may be the result of a variety of factors, including but not limited to the effects of hormone- and age-related changes, poor sleep, and life events.
How To Manage Perimenopause Rage
If you’re in midlife and frequently feel irritable or find yourself lashing out at others more than before, make an appointment with your healthcare provider. They can discuss your symptoms with you and help you identify if perimenopause rage might be the cause — and from there, you can explore the best treatment options for you.
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) is also called menopause hormone therapy.
HRT helps to restore hormone balance by supplementing estrogen in the form of estradiol or conjugated equine estrogens. Some HRT treatments also contain progesterone in the form of progestins.
HRT can be taken orally, given as a skin patch, or used locally as a vaginal cream or ring.
Using HRT can be an effective way to manage symptoms related to low estrogen, such as hot flashes, night sweats, and vaginal dryness. In addition to improving these symptoms and reducing the discomfort they cause, HRT may also help with changes in mood and sleep.
Treatments for Depression and Anxiety
If your perimenopause anger or irritability is coupled with symptoms of depression or anxiety, a healthcare provider may recommend a combination of treatments like:
- Antidepressant medications, such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs)
- Talk therapy, such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
Some evidence also suggests that mind-body exercises like yoga, tai chi, and mindfulness-based stress reduction techniques can improve anxiety and depression in women going through perimenopause and those who are postmenopause.
Lifestyle Changes
Certain lifestyle factors can aid in improving your mental well-being as well as your overall health and wellness. Some ways to do this include:
- Regularly exercising
- Eating a well-balanced, nutritious diet
- Getting adequate sleep
- Reducing stress
- Socializing
- Limiting or avoiding alcohol, tobacco, or other potentially harmful substances
Other Mood Issues Common During Perimenopause
In addition to perimenopause rage, you may also notice other mood changes during this timeframe. Two of the most common are depression and anxiety.
Depression
Depression is characterized by persistent low mood, and it is common: As of 2021, an estimated 8.3 percent of adults in the United States say they experienced at least one depressive episode in the past year. Women in perimenopause and early postmenopause are at an increased risk of experiencing depression, and research finds that irritability is highly prevalent among women in perimenopause who have mild depression.
People with depression can experience emotional symptoms like sadness, hopelessness, irritability, and guilt. They may also lose interest in hobbies, withdraw from loved ones, and have trouble with concentration and memory.
Depression can also lead to trouble sleeping; weight changes; and physical symptoms like body aches, headache, and digestive issues.
Anxiety
Anxiety generally refers to a feeling of worry, nervousness, or fear that interferes with your daily life. Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), panic disorder, and social anxiety disorder are common anxiety disorders.
Almost 20 percent of adults in the United States have experienced an anxiety disorder in the past year, and an estimated 31 percent will experience one in their lifetime.
The number of anxiety disorder diagnoses in women going through perimenopause is increasing. Researchers have also found that women with low levels of anxiety prior to perimenopause may have high levels of perimenopausal anxiety.
The Bottom Line
Perimenopause rage is the common experience of irritability and anger during this stage of life.
If you think that you’re experiencing perimenopause rage, know that you don’t have to tough it out. There are effective ways to manage this volatile mood symptom.
Reaching out to a healthcare provider for medical advice is a great first step. They can help you identify what may be contributing to your feelings of anger and irritability and recommend treatments and self-care practices that can help.
How common is perimenopause rage?
Perimenopause rage is pretty common. According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), about 40 percent of women in perimenopause experience mood changes that can include anger and irritability.
Is perimenopause rage an official diagnosis?
No, perimenopause rage isn’t an official diagnosis. However, mood changes like intense and sudden anger are a potential symptom of perimenopause.
What causes perimenopause rage?
Many factors can contribute to perimenopause rage. These include hormonal fluctuations during perimenopause, lack of sleep, and high stress levels.
How is perimenopause rage treated?
Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) may help manage perimenopause rage by addressing changes in hormone levels. Lifestyle changes like getting regular exercise, eating a healthy diet, and practicing good sleep hygiene may also help.
Does perimenopause rage go away on its own?
Perimenopause rage may stick around throughout perimenopause. However, it’s possible that it will occur less often as your hormone levels stabilize at menopause.
Can other mood issues happen during perimenopause?
Yes. Other mood-related issues, such as depression and anxiety, are also common during perimenopause. You can manage these issues using medications, talk therapy, or a combination of both.
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